To All the Boys I've Loved Before — Content Guide for Parents

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- ProfanityBrief
- Sexual contentBrief
- Gender rolesBriefChallenges traditional roles
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PRESENTContains references to prayer and church attendance. A minister character plays a supporting role in two chapters.
About this book
A Time Best YA Book of All Time (2021)
Lara Jean’s love life gets complicated in this New York Times bestselling “lovely, lighthearted romance” (School Library Journal) from the bestselling author of The Summer I Turned Pretty series.
What if all the crushes you ever had found out how you felt about them…all at once?
Sixteen-year-old Lara Jean Song keeps her love letters in a hatbox her mother gave her. They aren’t love letters that anyone else wrote for her; these are ones she’s written. One for every boy she’s ever loved—five in all. When she writes, she pours out her heart and soul and says all the things she would never say in real life, because her letters are for her eyes only. Until the day her secret letters are mailed, and suddenly, Lara Jean’s love life goes from imaginary to out of control.
Frequently asked questions
Is To All the Boys I've Loved Before appropriate for a 7-year-old?
Lara Jean and her sisters are half-Korean and half-white, and their white dad tries to keep up the Korean culture and food their late mother brought into the family. The book has some swear words, including "f--k", "s--t" and "hell", but reviewers say they are used infrequently.
Does To All the Boys I've Loved Before have violence?
Not found in the sources we checked.
Does To All the Boys I've Loved Before have scary content?
Not found in the sources we checked.
Does To All the Boys I've Loved Before have religion?
Not found in the sources we checked.
Does To All the Boys I've Loved Before have race & culture?
Found (Brief): Lara Jean and her sisters are half-Korean and half-white, and their white dad tries to keep up the Korean culture and food their late mother brought into the family.
Does To All the Boys I've Loved Before have profanity?
Found (Brief): The book has some swear words, including "f--k", "s--t" and "hell", but reviewers say they are used infrequently.
Does To All the Boys I've Loved Before have climate?
Not found in the sources we checked.
Does To All the Boys I've Loved Before have sexual content?
Found (Brief): Kissing and a steamy hot tub make-out scene happen on the page, and the story includes talk of a sister having had sex and a rumor that the main character did, but no sex is shown.
Does To All the Boys I've Loved Before have gender roles?
Found (Brief, Challenges traditional roles): One review says the sisters have feminist conversations, though the story is mostly about romance and family.
Does To All the Boys I've Loved Before have gender & orientation?
Not found in the sources we checked.



