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The Way I Am Now — Content Guide for Parents

By Amber SmithSimon and Schuster2023-11-07ISBN 9781665947107432 pages
The Way I Am Now

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Contains references to prayer and church attendance. A minister character plays a supporting role in two chapters.

About this book

Eden and Josh decide to give their relationship another chance in this much anticipated sequel to the New York Times bestseller The Way I Used to Be that “highlights with painful honesty the process of moving forward following trauma” (Kirkus Reviews).

Eden and Josh never had a fair shot at a healthy relationship. When they dated in high school, they each had their own problems getting in the way of the deep connection they felt toward one another. Unbeknownst to Josh, Eden was carrying the burden of a devastating sexual assault, while Josh was dealing with his own private struggle of having an alcoholic father.

Months after Eden and two other girls publicly accuse their rapist, Eden is starting college while her case goes to trial. Now when she and Josh reconnect, it seems like it might finally be in the right place at the right time for them to make it work. But is their love strong enough to withstand the challenges and chaos of college and the crushing realities of a trial that will determine whether Eden gets the justice she deserves?

Frequently asked questions

  • Is The Way I Am Now appropriate for a 7-year-old?

    The story addresses the aftermath of rape, detailing the protagonist's emotional struggles and the impact of violence on her relationships. This includes references to threats and the psychological effects of the trauma. The book deals with intense themes of trauma and emotional turmoil, which may be considered scary for some readers due to the subject matter of sexual violence and its psychological effects.

  • Does The Way I Am Now have violence?

    The story addresses the aftermath of rape, detailing the protagonist's emotional struggles and the impact of violence on her relationships. This includes references to threats and the psychological effects of the trauma.

  • Does The Way I Am Now have scary content?

    The book deals with intense themes of trauma and emotional turmoil, which may be considered scary for some readers due to the subject matter of sexual violence and its psychological effects.

  • Does The Way I Am Now have religious themes?

    No religious content or themes detected in the narrative based on the search results.

  • Does The Way I Am Now have racial/cultural content?

    No explicit themes of race or racism detected in the narrative based on the search results.

  • Does The Way I Am Now have profanity?

    The narrative contains frequent use of profanity including words like 'f--k', 's--t', and 'bitch', indicating a strong language presence throughout the text.

  • Does The Way I Am Now have climate change?

    No climate-related themes or discussions detected in the narrative based on the search results.

  • Does The Way I Am Now have sexual identity?

    The book includes descriptions of sexual encounters, including oral sex and making out, framed within the context of the characters' emotional journeys and struggles with intimacy. It explores themes of hypersexuality as a response to trauma.

  • Does The Way I Am Now have gender roles?

    The book addresses gendered violence and advocates for gender equality, suggesting a modern feminist framing that critiques traditional gender roles. However, specific examples of traditional roles versus modern feminism are not detailed in the sources.

  • Does The Way I Am Now have lgbtq+ themes?

    The narrative includes a character named Chris who has recently come out as transgender, highlighting themes of identity and acceptance. The book advocates for LGBTQIA+ equality and awareness, suggesting a supportive framing of LGBTQ+ issues.