Don't Ask Me Where I'm From — Content Guide for Parents
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PRESENTContains references to prayer and church attendance. A minister character plays a supporting role in two chapters.
About this book
First-generation American LatinX Liliana Cruz does what it takes to fit in at her new nearly all-white school. But when family secrets spill out and racism at school ramps up, she must decide what she believes in and take a stand.
Liliana Cruz is a hitting a wall—or rather, walls.
There’s the wall her mom has put up ever since Liliana’s dad left—again.
There’s the wall that delineates Liliana’s diverse inner-city Boston neighborhood from Westburg, the wealthy—and white—suburban high school she’s just been accepted into.
And there’s the wall Liliana creates within herself, because to survive at Westburg, she can’t just lighten up, she has to whiten up.
So what if she changes her name? So what if she changes the way she talks? So what if she’s seeing her neighborhood in a different way? But then light is shed on some hard truths: It isn’t that her father doesn’t want to come home—he can’t…and her whole family is in jeopardy. And when racial tensions at school reach a fever pitch, the walls that divide feel insurmountable.
But a wall isn’t always a barrier. It can be a foundation for something better. And Liliana must choose: Use this foundation as a platform to speak her truth, or risk crumbling under its weight.
Frequently asked questions
Is Don't Ask Me Where I'm From appropriate for a 7-year-old?
The narrative includes references to past violence, including a memory of a very drunk man associated with violence and mentions of gang violence affecting the characters. The context suggests a moderate level of violence related to the characters' experiences. No elements of scary content are detected in the search results. The narrative focuses on personal and social issues rather than horror or fear-inducing themes.
Does Don't Ask Me Where I'm From have violence?
The narrative includes references to past violence, including a memory of a very drunk man associated with violence and mentions of gang violence affecting the characters. The context suggests a moderate level of violence related to the characters' experiences.
Does Don't Ask Me Where I'm From have scary content?
No elements of scary content are detected in the search results. The narrative focuses on personal and social issues rather than horror or fear-inducing themes.
Does Don't Ask Me Where I'm From have religious themes?
No religious practices, beliefs, or ceremonies are mentioned in the book's narrative. The search results do not indicate any religious themes.
Does Don't Ask Me Where I'm From have racial/cultural content?
The book addresses themes of race and immigration, particularly through the experiences of the protagonist, Liliana, who navigates racial tensions and identity issues in her new school environment. It critiques societal perceptions based on race.
Does Don't Ask Me Where I'm From have profanity?
The book contains infrequent strong language, including words like 's--t', 'f--king', and 'bitch', as well as a mention of the 'n-word' in a group discussion context.
Does Don't Ask Me Where I'm From have climate change?
No climate-related themes or discussions are present in the book's narrative according to the search results. The content primarily revolves around personal and social issues.
Does Don't Ask Me Where I'm From have sexual identity?
The book includes a few kisses and making out that are not described in detail. It also mentions condoms in a sex education context, indicating some level of sexual content appropriate for a young adult audience.
Does Don't Ask Me Where I'm From have gender roles?
No specific gender roles or themes related to traditional or modern gender expectations are mentioned in the search results. The focus appears to be on the protagonist's personal growth and identity rather than gender roles.
Does Don't Ask Me Where I'm From have lgbtq+ themes?
The book features a lesbian side character and a flamboyant gay actor. Another character is suggested to be pansexual or bisexual, indicating LGBTQ+ representation within the narrative, although the extent of its significance is not fully clear.
